Private Consulting
Love Spark private consulting is in-depth program that allows, you the couple or individual, to fully engage in the Seven Principles to Making Marriage Work *(being married, or in a relationship, not required). Working with me in a more personal capacity will allow you to gain more foundation, increase connection, navigate conflict, and practice better compromise, just as the Couples Cohorts do; but you get to take it a step further.
Consulting sessions address and integrate the Seven Principles with current, or past, relationship challenges, such as the specialties that are my focus. It is important to understand that private consulting requires an application, because this allows me to determine if we are a good fit! If we are, then you will be invited to a virtual interview so that I may learn more about you as a couple and what brings you to Love Spark. If we are not a good fit, that's okay, too! I will happily guide you to more resources that I believe would be beneficial for you.
Every Structure Needs
A Foundation
It's no longer enough to measure the success of relationship in years, but rather in health. So what makes a healthy relationship? Our thirty days begins with building the foundation to our work by sharing important research and key information that has shaped the way we view healthy and successful relationships.
Increase Your Knowledge, Increase Connection
How well do you know your partner? Really. There is probably a confidence in how well you know your partner, but take caution. Feeling like you know your partner can lead to a level of complacency that has the potential to be the catalyst for an unhealthy relationship. Week two of our thirty days focuses on asking better questions to help you know your partner more deeply, which is key to navigating conflict.
Conflict Is Inevitable, but Connection Is A Choice
Every couple will face conflict within their relationship. How they learn to navigate that conflict can make or break what they've built. This crucial week three session of our thirty day cohort will not only give core conflict management skills, but it also teach specific techniques to managing personal stress during conflict. At the end of this session you will better understand how conflict can, in fact, build connection!
No One Actually Loses,
When You Compromise
You've heard the saying, "Each side loses when there's a compromise." That is far from the truth! To close out our thirty day cohort, week four walks couples through actual compromise strategy, which quite simple. The technique learned will allow you to not only compromise, but understand the your partner's perspective in an authentic way, which makes the compromise sustainable and flexible.
